biz talk :: back to basics – the fantasy, the reality and living abroad

It’s been a LONG TIME since I wrote a proper biz talk post, but after a conversation I had this weekend this idea has been on my mind heavy. There is definitely a major difference between the fantasy of owning your own business and the reality of it. That deserves its own post in the future, but I want to talk about that difference when you throw moving to another country into the mix. A country for one reason or another you’ve decided to make a life in, but hadn’t considered it business-wise.

I can talk from a personal perspective since I am one of those people. Now that I’m feeling settled where I am, I am still not sold on the buying power of customers here. Not Europe, but The Netherlands. I have one of two choices at this point: I could either give in (which is not an option if you haven’t noticed) or make it work for me. Sure, the materials I use for my jewelry are desperately scarce here and in small shops there is a general lack of quality control, but that won’t deter me. It’s actually made me become much more resourceful with what I brought here to begin with. It has also forced me to take my ideas of product expansion into a workable reality. I’ve been researching where to learn how to cast jewelry and later this month I’m taking an intensive sewing course (ahh, things I’ve never mentioned here).

One thing I’ve learned living here so far is there’s absolutely no excuse to be had when you really want something. When you’re put in a difficult position, you just have to work with what you’ve got until you’ve got something better. I could just as easily spend every single day here moping about not having access to all the amazingness that is New York City—or I can get on my bike and ride around this town and see if there is a tiny shop here or there that might be of interest to me. It is so easy to take NYC for granted when you’ve lived there your entire life. I knew better than to think I would have access to every thing imaginable, but I never thought it would be this difficult to find even basic things for my business to grow. With time and an expansion of my personal network, things will change. It just takes time.

In all honesty, I think like many other Americans, I came here thinking, Euros! My stuff is different. I’ll be a hit! but expected it immediately. I don’t even know why I would think that since I would have to build up a name here, but you know, the eagerness of new sometimes doesn’t make you think. In a perfect world, I would’ve spent time getting to know other European designers prior to moving instead of just looking at their work. I will mention that I don’t see too many designers in Amsterdam that make what I like and those who are a bit more popular aren’t really the style I’m into. I do need to be mindful of my audience, but the beauty of newness is you also get to introduce a new way of looking at something and no one can take that from you. I plan on using it for what it’s worth: which is a lot.

It’s probably a good thing I have larger plans for my business than just what I’ve been making, which in all honesty I’m a bit tired of making. Spoiler alert: I’m  putting some styles in a sales vault [new category] and they’ll be on sale until they are all sold and won’t be recreated again. I’m ready to try new things. Moving is a true test of patience. You are in some ways starting from the bottom if you didn’t have a large following to begin with in your new territory. In other ways, there’s so much more available to you—there are countries surrounding me that I have easy access to now that I would never have had before.

Have any of you made a really big move to a place that wasn’t what you thought it might be business-wise? How did you handle that transition? Did it stop you dead in your tracks or did it inspire you to grow? This is something I would love to have tons of opinion on because I think sometimes as expats one negative thing can make us mentally and spiritually snowball into everything turning out not in our favor.

have a rockin’ weekend!

I thought I’d leave you with some music for your weekend. Make it an awesome one. New goodies in store next week. Let’s see if I can get some jewelry making done this weekend. Shop announcement coming soon too. Lots and lots going on! Are you up to anything special this weekend? See you Monday!

a few of my favorite things

Happy Monday!

If you’re in the US, how was your long weekend? If you’re not, how was your normal weekend? I guess I’ve been a bit offline like I’m still in America, but I was really very busy with good things. On Thursday I was feeling left out because this is officially my second Thanksgiving that I haven’t celebrated. I was never a fan of the day to begin with, but I do always love that it meant preparing a huge meal and eating and laughing and talking. I grew to love it as I got older. I especially felt odd-man-out because I was unable to attend two friend potlucks happening here around the same time.

But I did get to chat to a good friend and her family on Skype and while I was on the line with them my doorbell rang and it was the postman with a huge box from my mom! And as fate would have it, a few minutes later, my mom called me on Skype! What perfect-o timing. I got loads and loads of stuff that I wanted and needed. Oh it was just as good as being home. It was like my mom gave me a hug. My nail polish collection is now officially ridiculous (for me).

Since I got a few of my favorite things in the mail from my mom, I thought I’d start the week with a few of my favorite things around the web:

I have admired and wanted some pieces from Maranon‘s jewelry line since forever. I didn’t know she had a new site though and I was pleasantly surprised.

Hila commented on my Miss Moss post and I seriously love her blog. I’ve been reading it in chunks since last week.

My friend, Szjerdene has her own drink, courtesy of Drinkify (which is pretty rad btw).

Forgive me that this site is in Dutch, but I spent my Saturday night at the exhibit opening for Zwart van Roet and my entire Sunday at the accompanying panel discussion on the degradation that is Zwarte Piet. Next year, I’ll be unveiling a project I’m currently working on to discuss racial and cultural identity.

Don’t think I’ve forgotten about my 29 at 29 list. I think I should have a hefty update soon.

Have an amazing weekend!

Happy 11.11.11!

Are you up to anything amazing this weekend? I am going to be vending on Sunday at the Black Magic Woman Festival in Amsterdam, so if you’re around STOP BY! I’ll be selling my jewelry and also the newer stuff that isn’t in the shop yet at a discounted rate. I’m spending today and tomorrow to get prepped. I haven’t done a show since 2009. I can’t believe that!

Don’t forget, if you’re not in Amsterdam or you can’t make it, I’m also having a preview of my newest jewelry on sale this SUNDAY. All the special deets are in the link.

It is that time of year. I saw this on the wall of my friend’s facebook page and had to share.

Some links for your weekend:

I want this sweater from Beklina sooo badly.
These chalk/paint by number prints are equal parts brilliant and beautiful. via sweet sweet life
When I have the time, I would love to make this bath rug. Genius. via Re-Nest sdfa
I’m rethinking my packaging design for next year and this design from Barbiturik is simple and great. via Lovely Package
I made soup this week and loved it. I notice that Celia is having a soup club on her site. Awesome soups there.

See you on Monday!

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